Seeking a sexually pure life
As one of the core principles of creativity, sexuality the true pleasure everyone yearns for, has had its principles being diverted to a point of no return. Many have scavenged the ideal sense of sexuality and have fallen in to deep trouble. The way we handle our sexuality truly determines how life will turn out to be some day.
God's plan is for every man to have it in fullness and enjoy the pleasures he created for that sake. Many have therefore failed the simple plan to a pure life to “seek to understand first before seeking to be understood”. The path to a sexually pure life is a mind set of trying to fulfill a desire that will never be satisfied but we can all try to:-
- Grow up and take full responsibility of our lives
- Learn to socialize with members of the opposite sex without any strings attached
- Learn obedience with total self discipline
- Learn good communication skills including the skill of being understood
- Develop self control skills
- Be accountable to each other and keep in good company
- Develop a strength of character
- Become a person of integrity (One who is truthful and does the right thing)
- Take NOT a 2nd look for the 1st look may be impossible but the 2nd look gives ideas (Especially the men)
- Above all, have a strong and growing relationship with the mighty one
Comments
Occam's Razor would have said yes!
I got one problem though. How do you keep pure for years and years after you get bornagain and before you marry.
Please answer. Am struggling.
Logically is hard, spiritually it’s workable and physically it’s even impossible. Attraction is a force in the mind, a force that drives all of us nuts every day.
In church its even worse, the demon chasing brothers and sisters have waged a war on that BUT many of them have crossed the boundaries. Life is a mystery; no one is as righteous as the son of God even the David had a rough time dealing with these life issues.
In church again people have eaten the fruit several times without any remorse. The stories of no condom use have downed to us and it’s now a new campaign in the house of God. My brother I decided to look to one direction, have one avoid many though the eyes often deceive me but I stick to the one I have.
I play hide and not seek, never to be found and not to find. I pray for God’s strength and use my weakness as a strong life tower. You have to be truthful to a sister, let her never take assumptions coz you will be winked away by a little touch.